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Relationships

So we know how important human interaction is to us, we literally need it. No lonely person is a happy person, so dealing with other humans is a must for us all and is actually a skill in itself.

A massive benefit in modern day society is being socially capable. Being able to talk to people , have them like you, being able to influence them and have people want to be around you has so many benefits. First of all you will avoid loneliness, you’ll be easily able to influence people to do things that you want them to do and of course people will be more willing to do business with you or employ you in higher positions. Are all the CEO’s in the world the best people for the job? I seriously doubt it, they are actually the most liked people in the business. It is literally possible to socialize your way into many advantageous positions, both in a corporate and personal environment.

So I am going to outline social tips and skills to let you improve your social life.

1. Do not argue with anyone

The reasons why, there is absolutely nothing you can gain from this. Even if you are correct and are able to prove the other person incorrect, what have you gained? does this person like you anymore then they already did? no is the answer. All you have done is hurt their pride and basically told them they are stupid. So as a rule of thumb I never enter an argument in a social situation because it is nearly never to your advantage to disprove this person.

Belief

Belief is so important to achieving your goals and over coming adversity. If you have any doubt about your ability to succeed in your field then this is a massive internal block and this is basically a receipt for failure because your internal blueprint is hardwired against you.

Your internal blueprint is important to achieving your goals because this internal vision is what is will become a reality. So if your blueprint contains some missing links caused by self doubt then you can never really achieve your goal because you will eventually be a victim self sabotage.

Common limiting beliefs are “I’m not good enough”, “things like that don’t happen to me”, “that’s only for rich people” or “In reality it will never happen” all these thoughts will put a permanent stamp of disbelief on your vision and this basically means you’re doomed from the beginning. This is further proof that your thoughts become reality.

So now that we understand the negative effects of limiting beliefs lets take a glance at the positive impacts of belief when it comes to achieving your goals. True belief in your ability to achieve your goal is a crucial ingredient in the receipt of success. Belief alone wont bring you to where you want to be but a lack of it will certainly stop you. When a person truly believes something then they will better cope with set backs and adversity, that inner belief that it will happen develops into a pro active attitude. All successful people view failure as a learning experience and almost don’t see it as a negative thing but just a necessary part of the journey. This attitude is summed up in John Kavanagh’s book title “win or learn”.

A great example of someone using a strong belief on there way to achieving their ultimate goal is UFC’s Conor Mcgregor. You can find a video of Conor before his rise to fame claiming he knows he will be world champion, he first outlines his dream of becoming “world champion and to have more money than he knows what to do with”  he then goes on to say he knows its going to happen, ” I will be where I want to be, I’m 100% confident”.

 

This is a great example of someone with a strong unbreakable belief when there was no physical evidence of his vision materialising, but this is where every dream starts, in a place of no evidence and this is where it is hardest to have belief, but it is where you MUST have it. As we all know Conor did go to achieve what he outlined in the video above and will always be a great example of the correct mindset of success. “I will be world champion”, it may have seemed these words were coming from a delusional boy and people may have laughed, but who is laughing now?

 


Belief is a very healthy thing to have in your life. To read more about health visit our page on health. Starting today have a belief in everything you attempt to do, if you start off with a lack of belief then you have already failed.

Confidence

Confidence is a crucial part of achieving what you want. A huge block which stands in between you and what you want is fear, fear of trying, fear or stepping outside your comfort zone, fear of people judging you, fear of attention and fear of failure are just a few to mention.

So a massive way of combating fear is using your confidence, if you don’t have any real confidence then fake it until you make it. With confidence the barrier of fear falls away and leaves you a much clearer path to follow on the way to your goal.

I know what your thinking, its not that easy, you don’t just act confident and you magically become confident. Well actually if you fake it enough and you keep repeating to yourself that you’re confident, well then eventually it will sink into your sub conscious mind(the same part of of your brain that makes your heart beat 10,000 times a day without thinking) and then you will believe it. That is all confidence is, a belief in ones self, and that is all learning is, repetition.

So there you have it, be confidence, act confident, repeatedly tell yourself you have nothing to fear and your life will be instantly better. Fear is natural but it is not useful, it holds you back and serves no purpose.

When you are liberated from fear then you will see the world in a new light, a much truer and you will see that actually you can achieve anything you want and the reason many people don’t attempt to achieve anything extraordinary is due to the fear’s listed above. Anyone who says you can’t do something, its not possible or that you are being unrealistic are actually just negative people who have let fear control there lives. Dream of what you want and then take aim at those dreams without fear, anyone who has achieved anything has dreamed of that success. Negative people discourage dreaming, fearful people discourage dreaming, cut them from your life and aim for your dreams. Even if you never achieve them you will live a much more fulfilled life building towards something worthwhile.

You will never be better than your wildest dreams” – Napolean Hill

The importance of repetition until automatically cannot be overstated. Repetition is the key to learning” – John Wooden